Most of the time, disrespect isn’t loud.
It’s not always shouting, insults, or cheating.
Sometimes, it’s in the little things — the things you do (or don’t do) every day without even thinking twice.
If you really care about your woman and your relationship, it’s important to pay attention to certain habits that might be hurting her quietly.
Here are 6 ways you might be disrespecting your woman without noticing:
1. You Talk More Than You Listen
When she opens up about her feelings, do you actually listen — or do you just wait for your turn to talk?
If she always feels unheard or ignored, it starts to chip away at her trust.
What to do:
Be present when she speaks. Put the phone down, pause the game, and actually listen. Sometimes, she doesn’t want advice — she just wants to feel heard.
2. You Call Her “Too Emotional”
This is one of the fastest ways to shut her down.
When she’s upset or trying to express herself, calling her “too emotional” makes her feel like her feelings are wrong.
What to do:
Respect her emotions, even if you don’t fully understand them. Telling her how she should feel never helps — just be kind and patient.
3. You Joke About Her in Public
You might think you’re just being funny, but teasing her looks, weight, or habits in front of others can feel disrespectful — even if you meant no harm.
What to do:
Keep private jokes private. Praise her in public, correct in private. That’s respect.
4. You Stop Noticing the Little Things
She does things for you that you might not even notice — like checking in on you, making your favorite meal, or remembering what you said days ago.
When you don’t acknowledge those efforts, it feels like you don’t care.
What to do:
Say “thank you.” Notice the little things. A bit of appreciation goes a long way.
5. You Compare Her to Other Women
Comments like,
“Why don’t you dress like her?” or
“Look how she supports her man…”
— they might seem innocent, but they sting hard.
What to do:
Don’t compare her. Everyone’s style, personality, and love language are different. Focus on helping her become the best version of herself — not someone else.
6. You Make All the Decisions Yourself
Booking trips, spending money, making plans — without asking her or considering what she wants — can come off as controlling instead of caring.
What to do:
Even in the small stuff, ask for her input. You’re in a relationship, not a dictatorship.
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