Love can make you do beautiful things — but sometimes, it also blindfolds you. It’s easy to get carried away when you’re in love, but a relationship should never cost you your peace, self-worth, or dignity.
No matter how deeply you love a guy, there are certain mistakes you should never make, because once the damage is done, it’s your heart that suffers the most.
Here are 6 mistakes you should never make, no matter how much you love him:
1. Losing Yourself to Please Him
Don’t change who you are just to fit into his ideal image. Don’t leave your dreams, passions, or identity behind just to be liked or accepted. Love that wants to erase your identity is not love — it’s control.
Stay true to who you are. The right man will love the real you.
2. Tolerating Disrespect in the Name of Love
If he constantly talks down on you, mocks you, or treats you like you don’t matter — that’s not love, it’s emotional damage. Never confuse attention with respect.
You teach people how to treat you. Don’t allow disrespect because you’re afraid of losing him.
3. Being Too Available and Doing Too Much
Being supportive is good, but don’t be the one always calling, texting, visiting, spending, and giving while getting nothing in return. Effort should go both ways.
Love shouldn’t make you do wife duties for someone who’s treating you like an option.
4. Staying After Repeated Red Flags
Once is a mistake. Repeating it is a pattern. If he cheats, lies, ghosts you, or plays mind games — and you’re still hoping he’ll change for you, you’re giving him permission to keep hurting you.
If he doesn’t value your love, don’t force your presence.
5. Chasing Him While He’s Ignoring You
If a man is not calling, not texting back, not showing up — he’s not too busy, he’s just not prioritizing you.
Don’t keep chasing a man who keeps pulling away. Even in love, let your dignity lead the way.
6. Thinking Marriage Will Fix a Broken Relationship
If you’re struggling with lies, cheating, or emotional distance while dating, don’t assume everything will magically change after marriage.
Marriage magnifies everything — including problems.
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